Enhancing your use of the lessons -- Lesson one : prune carefully ... and often! -- Lesson two : recognize your renewal zones -- Lesson three : catch the slide -- Lesson four : seek hidden possibilities -- Lesson five : engage the spiritual darkness -- Lesson six : pair clarity and kindness -- Lesson seven : find love in small deeds -- Lesson eight : seek perspective daily -- Lesson nine : build a barrier of simplicity -- Lesson ten : come home often -- Be a dangerous listener.