Unlike most approaches to marriage crisis, the strategy provided in this book does not require the willing cooperation of both spouses. It offers guidance that gives you a chance of rekindling romance, renewing your relationship, and drawing your partner back into your arms.

With love to the victims --Panic and appeasement -- The tender trap -- Young love, true love -- Opening the cage door -- The tougher questions -- The valley of the shadow -- Three women who tried it -- Questions and answers -- Victims of affairs: a dialogue -- Discussion of the dialogue -- Anatomy of adultery -- Loving toughness in other settings -- Angry women and passive men -- Loving toughness for singles -- Components of a good marriage -- With more love to the victims.