Citing the challenges posed by parenthood on otherwise strong marriages, a reference based on the advice of hundreds of families makes recommendations for such topics as the division of labor, sexual frustration, and grandparent management.

How did we get here? Parenthood changes everything -- Baby ... boom! Welcome to the foxhole -- What's the score? The post-baby battle of the sexes -- The "sex life" of new parents : coitus non-existus -- In-laws and outlaws : the good, the bad, and the ugly -- Ramping up and giving in : more kids, more chaos -- Balancing priorities : where do we go from here? -- So, did we learn anything?.