Laying the groundwork -- Everyday ex-etiquette -- Remarriage or integrating a new partner -- Dealing with your spouse's ex (or your ex's new spouse) -- Turning your stepfamily into a Bonusfamily -- Ex-etiquette for Bonusparents -- Improving extended family relations -- Introductions, correspondence, and other conventions -- Babies, weddings, showers, and announcements -- Holidays and special occasions.