Most of us have no idea how others see or process their experiences. And that can make relationships hard, whether with intimate partners, with friends, or in our professional lives. Understanding the motivations and dynamics of these different personality types can be the key that unlocks sometimes mystifying behavior in others—and in ourselves. This book from Suzanne Stabile on the nine Enneagram types and how they behave and experience relationships will guide readers into deeper insights about themselves, their types, and others' personalities so that they can have healthier, more life-giving relationships. No one is better equipped than Suzanne Stabile, coauthor, with Ian Morgan Cron, of The Road Back to You, to share the Enneagram's wisdom on how relationships work—or don’t.

Introduction -- 8s: Vulnerability is not weakness -- 9s: Risking conflict for connection -- 1s: Things could always be better -- 2s: Your feelings or mine? -- 3s: Being everyone but myself -- 4s: Go away but don't leave -- 5s: My fences have gates -- 6s: Question everything -- 7s: It's all good -- Conclusion.