A special message from Dan and Tina -- Rethinking discipline -- Your brain on discipline -- From tantrum to tranquility : connection is the key -- No-drama connection in action -- 1-2-3 discipline: redirecting for today, and for tomorrow -- Addressing behavior : as simple as R-E-D-I-R-E-C-T -- On magic wands, being human, reconnection, and change : four messages of hope.