"Founder of popular website Get Your Shit Together blends personal story and must-have advice in the ultimate guide to getting your affairs in order--from wills and advance directives to insurance, finances, and relationships--before the unthinkable happens"-- Provided by publisher.

A note to the reader -- Introduction -- Part I : before -- Life goes sideways -- Guide : When life goes sideways -- Waiting for the dice to roll -- Guide : When the shit hits the fan -- Family meeting -- The last day -- Reentry protocol -- Guide : Quality of life, death, and dying -- Tell the truth: not too much -- Found and lost -- Part II : after -- Aftershocks -- Meridians -- The celebration-of-life memorial-fund-ceremony-service -- Guide : after death -- Strangers in a strange land -- Border crossing -- Death by a thousand paper cuts -- Guide : the tangled web we leave -- 1. Essentials -- 2. Insurance -- 3. Money -- 4. Legal -- Practice makes progress -- The new normal(ish) -- Drink, fuck, run -- Missed connections -- Part III : always -- The overview effect -- What would Cher do? -- Guide : what makes a difference? -- Message in a bottle -- Where's the bear? -- Guide : what matters most -- A small series of losses -- Departure -- Jump -- Afterward : finding shore -- The guidebook -- Acknowledgements -- /notes -- Index