Argues that adult success is often established in the developmental preschool years, sharing advice for parents on how to promote such success-driving positive attributes as resilience, self-regulation, and empathy.

"A Touchstone Book."

Pt. 1. The developing mind of your toddler : why they really do the things they do -- Setting up toddlers to thrive : self-regulation and the key to the success -- The toddler paradox : why they pull you close and then push you away -- Toddler's eye view : shift your POV and change your interaction with your child -- Toddler shame : what happens when you don't think like a toddler -- pt. 2. Cracking the toddler code : solutions for everyday life -- Cracking the code on everyday routines : eating, sleeping, and toilet training -- Cracking the code on toddler emotions : tantrums, fear, and the battle of "No!" -- Cracking the code on transitions : helping toddlers manage change -- Cracking the code on toddler learning : playing, sharing, and leaving children alone -- A lab for later : the fifteen new seeds for success -- A final note to take with you.